
For example, it came as a shock that if I needed a song "jazzed up" a bit or transposed quickly, my mother just did it. Other pianists couldn't just instantly make arrangements that suited me or the situation. My mother could also write songs. I still remember parts of a song she wrote for me late one night for a Roadshow that was set to perform the next day. My part in the mini-show, she said, needed character development and a song would do just that. It was a nice little short song and gave my character the needed development.
She could play the piano, sure, and sing like a nightingale. The amazing bit, though, is that she could do those things and also carry on six different conversations while sitting at the piano entertaining for parties. She was, and still is, the only person I ever knew who could enter a room and within minutes know every person's name and their life stories ----- and also get invitations to stay at their houses should the need ever arise.
My mother was a terrific cook, too. Seems like she could make something special out of the basest of ingredients in the fridge before the Saturday shopping day. For most of my early life, Mom only had the use of a car on the weekends. It wasn't until I was in Middle School that my parents got a second car. It took good planning to be able to feed our tribe of six kids with only shopping once a week. She made even common days holidays.
My mother loved people. And people loved her. She had friends everywhere, including the many places we lived --- the schools, the neighborhood, at church, the grocery stores --- and she kept track of and remembered them. People were always begging her to teach their children piano or voice lessons. She taught students at very inconvenient times --- at 6:00 in the morning until school started and then after school until suppertime. She had to teach me a few recipes to get dinner started on lessons days. (Poor family! They had to endure my poor attempts at cooking.)
I only wish I had more recordings of her beautiful voice. This is an arrangement she entrusted to me now. "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" from the Wizard of Oz.
Love you, Mom.